Tuesday 19 April 2016

Always something.... to be thankful for



This is something I truly believe and manifest in...

Been 'spying' (not really la, they popped up on my FB wall) and noticed some ladies here are kinda depressed over something. It can be tough to face the reality and hard to put on that genuine smile.. but listen! There is always bound to have something to look forward to and be thankful for.

  • What about the upcoming holiday you have saved up for months and finally going to experience some cool air?
  • What about the gathering you and your girles have planned for to binge on that SUPER DUPER yummy food
  • What about knowing someone you know will be discharged soon from hospital?
  • What about knowing the parcel you ordered will soon arrive at your door step?
  • What about knowing that your little poochie will welcome you wholeheartedly the moment you get home?

The list is long and toooooo long! We need to feel at peace and manifest good things in life. It is only then, you will only be able to find true happiness. After seeing the individual FB postings, the admins and I are even more determined to make Curvysta be successful and in hope we can change 1 or 2 'depressed' lady.
but while we are gearing towards that, we need to remind ourselves that there is ALWAYS ALWAYS something to be thankful for.
 
I honestly did not start out to be like this. I am a pessimistic and gawd... I find all ways to be upset. I am upset with my flat hair, I am upset with my small eyes, no dimple. I am upset with my double chin. I am even am upset with why my house is not like my gfs which is super neat and cosy. Then I realised something, OMG.... all these things I am upset about are manifested by me! It is true! Why so? It is because if I am upset with my hair, I can simply go to a hair salon and go a revamp hair cut, i have small eyes yes, but I failed to see how caucasions find my eyes exotic and unique! I have messy home because I did not come up with a system to clean my house! Everything started from me due to my pessimistic attitude! So what I do NOW is that I tend to find different angles to look at things and be happy about it! I must add though, that you need to be in the right group of people as they will help you gear towards positivity. This is important and when you start to sense they are more of a poison to you, you need to slowly take a step back, away from them...

It is a lot of work for beginners to feel positive and be happy about everything! But we try and we give ourselves some time to be a new person... I am alot more positive these days and I remind myself by reading loads of happy quotes and books and I think it helps! So come ladies! Try your best in finding an angle to be happy about today!
What about mine you may ask? Mine's simple, I am thankful that I can sweat so much in just typing on this warm day. No seriously, I need to sweat out those water retention due to the meds and for this, I am REALLY thankful....